New Reading List

Okay, sorry the title is misleading, it's not a new reading list for us.  It's actually a new list for my daughter.  I pay her $2 for any book she reads off of it.  This is her new one for 7th-8th grade.  I thought I'd put it up for any suggestions..... suggestions are always welcome!  Just FYI, I make the list of some harder books to challenge her, and then some books just so she'll branch out and read a wide variety of genres, and some I just put on because I like them. :)  She doesn't read without being required too, and she wouldn't read most of these without the monetary reward.

• The Blue Sword -Robin McKinley
• Kira-Kira -Cynthia Kadohata
• The Hound of the Baskervilles -Arthur Conan Doyle
• Lord of the Flies -William Golding
• Dracula -Bram Stoker
• The Hobbit -J.R.R. Tolkien
• Rebecca -Daphne du Maurier
• Uncle Tom’s Cabin -Harriet Beecher Stowe
• Northanger Abbey -Jane Austin
• Wuthering Heights -Emily Bronte
• Ramona -Helen Hunt Jackson
• Mrs. Mike -Benedict Freedman and Nancy Freedman
• Kidnapped -Robert Louis Stevenson
• Adrift:Seventy-six Days Lost at Sea - Steven Callahan
• Little Women -Louisa May Alcott
• Jurassic Park -Michael Crichton
• Across Five Aprils -Irene Hunt
• The Call of the Wild -Jack London
• Anne of Green Gables -L.M. Montgomery
• Rebecca of Sunnybrook Farm -Kate Douglas Wiggen
• The Pearl -John Steinbeck
• My Brother Sam is Dead -James Lincoln Collier and Christopher Collier
• The Outsiders -S.E. Hinton
• The Cay -Theadore Taylor
• A Day No Pigs Would Die -Robert Newton Peck
• Night -Elie Wiesel
• H.M.S. Ulysses -Allistair Maclean
• Goodbye Mr. Chips -James Hilton
• Island of the Blue Dolphins -Scott O’Dell
• The Sea Wolf -Jack London
• Treasure Island -Robert Louis Stevenson
• On Fortune’s Wheel- Cynthia Voigt
• The Forestwife -Theresa Thomlinson
• The Bronze Bow -Elizabeth George Speare
• The House of Seven Gables - Nathaniel Hawthorne
• I Heard the Owl Call My Name -Margaret Craven
• No Promises in the Wind -Irene Hunt
• Obasan-Joy Kogawa
• The River Between Us -Richard Peck
• The Slave Dancer -Paula Fox
• Silas Marner -George Eliot
• Who Has Seen the Wind -W.O. Mitchell
• Anthem -Ayn Rand
• The Time It Never Rained -Elmer Kelton
• All Creatures Great and Small -James Herriot
• Goodnight, Mr. Tom -Michelle Magorian
• The Robe -Lloyd C. Douglas
• Believing Christ -Stephen E. Robinson
• Our Search for Happiness -M. Russell Ballard
• A Marvelous Work and A Wonder - LeGrand Richards
• The Work and the Glory -Gerald N. Lund
• Fishers of Men -Gerald N. Lund
• By These Ten Bones -Claire B. Dunkle
• The House of Many Rooms -Rodella Hunter
• The Prisoner of Zenda -Anthony Hope
• I Capture the Castle -Dodie Smith
•   Juniper -Monica Furlong
• Rifles for Watie -Harold Keith
• Charlie’s Monument -Blaine M. Yorgason
• And Then There Were None-Agatha Christie
• Elantris- Brandon Sanderson
• The Hiding Place - Corrie Ten Boom
• Follow the River - James Thom
• A Town Like Alice - Nevil Shute
• Billy Budd - Herman Melville
• The Scarlet Pimpernel - Emmuska Orczy
• Something Wicked This Way Comes- Ray Bradbury
• The Maude Reed Tale -Norah Lofts
• The Only Alien on the Planet- Kristen D. Randle
• Freckles- Gene Statton-Porter
• Soul Surfer - Bethany Hamiliton
• Shipwreck at the Bottom of the World- Jennifer Armstrong
• Phineas Gage: A Gruesome but True Story About Brain Science - John Fleischman
• An American Plague: The True and Terrifying Story of the Yellow Fever Epidemic of 1793 by Jim Murphy
• Any (1 time only) Tony Hillerman
• Any longer Louis L’Amour (ask me first)

I would LOVE to get back into this as well...the way it was originally set up!  :-) 
Right now I am reading Booker T. Washington's "Up From Slavery."  I understand many of you may have already read this book...but I would enjoy discussing it with other like-minded people. 
What if we each contributed about 5 titles we'd like to see on the list and then put them in order and get started?  Kami - if you are out of control busy, I could set up the list as you've done in the past. ?? 
Anyone else up for it?
JULIA

Are we still here? Or too busy?

Hey guys,
Is anyone interesting in getting back into some reading and discussing?  I really miss having someone to discuss big ideas with.  Plus, I like the motivation of wanting to be able to join in the discussion to encourage me to read something a little harder or out of my comfort zone.  I don't have a lot of time, but I am aiming to give myself 30 minutes a day to read something worthwhile.

Reply to Kelly

I really liked both those posts. I couldn't help but compare the modesty post to Misfit's modesty post and I think I finally get why several of you can't stand Misfit. Both posts were blunt about the importance of modesty, but this lady's blog focused on the doctrine and the heart which made Misfit just seem like a really nit-picky, judgmental person. I had several people read the Misfit article on modesty and they all got hung up on the "no darts" in your shirt and that was it--all other messages failed to transmit. There is a lesson in there for me as a teacher.

Miriam watched the link to the church website for the youth--the video on deep beauty -- and she really picked up on the "queen" idea. I need to internalize that message. It is so hard to not get hung up on the world's view of beauty. I also have committed to not talking about looks/weight/etc. around my children. My mom never talked about that stuff and I never thought about it, and I think that is really healthy. I think me and my sisters chat about it when we get together because we are all reproducing and that wreaks havoc on your weight/self-image, but I've noticed some of my nieces listening a few times and I think we are sending the wrong messages to the young ladies in our family.

I agree with you, Kelly, that we have to step it up in the teaching spiritual things to our children department. What have you done that has been successful? So far I feel like I've done a few (very few) good things. Baptism Prep with Miriam was awesome. She learned how to find scriptures, she memorized most of the Articles of Faith, we talked about faith and repentance, and I was able to bear testimony to her almost every day. I'm excited to start Baptism Prep with Cowen on March 1 (can't believe he's turning 7!!).

This year for devotional (when I manage to have morning devotional with the kids), I've read a few Friend articles but then I also read a story from Inspiring Experiences that Build Faith by President Monson. He wrote about different experiences he has had that taught him something. Each one is about a page. My kids are really getting to know their prophet and they are remembering these stories. So I feel good about that.

I plan on someday doing a Priesthood Prep, but that is intimidating because I don't really know what a boy should study the year prior to getting the priesthood and I don't know that much about it myself. I have a few years to figure this out. I'm also planning on doing a special YW prep with my daughters when they are 11. I figured we'd talk about all the YW values, spend one month on each, and discuss the importance of each. But, I haven't decided for sure. Instead, I might do 1/2 year YW prep and Priesthood Prep and the other 1/2 year as temple prep, since I plan on taking my kids to the temple once a week once they turn 12.

Okay--that is it for me. Anyone else with any thoughts?? I read in the Ensign that the strongest correlation between a behavior and going on a mission was personal scripture study. If you can get your kids to study the scriptures then they are significantly more likely to go on a mission and get married in the temple. What are the best ways to encourage that? Other good ideas?

arm yourselves, ladies

I have a new favorite blog.  Here are two posts that I read recently and REALLY liked.  I don't know about you guys, but I've been feeling this weight on my heart, prompting, personal interest, etc., lately in what I need to do to teach my children.  And not so much for the battle against Satan that they're going to face themselves, but the battle my grandchildren are going to face when my children will be the parents.  It sounds dire when I say it like that, but I really feel like the Adversary is working hard and we've got to kick it up a notch (or more) in our spiritual teaching to our youth.

http://diapersanddivinity.com/2012/02/07/pornography-satans-power-tool/

http://diapersanddivinity.com/2012/01/23/the-beauty-paradox/

Enjoy.

Reads

Sister Beck gave a recent BYU devotional called "Why We are Organized into Quorums and Relief Societies".
http://speeches.byu.edu/?act=viewitem&id=2012

I have only gotten through part of it, but thought I'd share.  Sister Beck is so awesome. 

Oh, funny story.  I was doing research for my YW lesson about receiving inspiration from the Holy Ghost and one of the talks that came up on my radar was Sister Beck's talk from April 2010 Conference.  Wonderful talk, by the way.  Anyway, the ideas in it were almost exactly what she expressed to the region when she came to California in October and spoke to us.  Before she started her talk in October, she asked women to share any questions that they had for her.  Those that spoke all told sad stories about personal challenges and seemed to be asking her what they should do about their problems {edited to add that I don't want to sound unfeeling - they really were sad stories}.  Her reply was a talk on receiving personal revelation - exactly what she spoke on in that April Conference.  I was thinking - surely it must be frustrating to our leaders to feel like they are TALKING and no one is LISTENING.  Sister Beck could have said "go read my conference talk - you'll find all you need to know in there".  But she didn't.

Just a little personal reminder to myself to READ and ACT and then go back and re-read and study and, well, stop bugging the Lord to fix my problems when he's probably already provided the answer in one form or another.  Maybe a better plea would be to ask the Lord to help me find and recognize the answer from the counsel we've already received.
:-)

Hope you are all having a pleasant January.  I am up to my eyeballs in New Beginnings (happens tonight).  The President that I serve under, and I, have never been to one EVER!   We did something totally fun, though.  The Bishop gave us permission (and then went and did the work for us) to screw hooks into corners of the wall so that we could put pretty lights across the ceiling.  The girls are going to be so amazed because that is one thing that has never been done in our ward.  Should make it a little bit like a fairyland - it reminds me of every wedding reception I've ever been to in a church building.  ;-)  The lovely part of being in this particular small ward is that people have very low expectations!

Oh, just read a fascinating book that my husband had recommended to him called "Donbas: A True Story of an Escape Across Russia".  It's a very quick read and not too heavy or intense, especially considering the subject matter.  This autobiography is a tale of a 15 year old Romanian kid who was captured at the end of WWII and sent to Russia to be a slave in their coal mines...and what happens from there. 

Modesty

Kelly, loved the misfit post on modesty. I have said many of the same things--especially about the trend toward stores that claim modesty while selling flagrantly immodest items. Drives me nuts. The only thing I wasn't sure about was the heels. I love my heels. On the other hand, it might be a definition thing. I don't wear stilettos. I also don't wear super high heels. Definitely higher than pumps, however. I also think it is ridiculous when YW wear heels. Looks ridiculous--and definitely draws attention. Whether I would go so far as to say they are dressing immodestly . . . I will think about that more.

The post I would write about modesty would focus a lot less on the actual clothes and more on the attitudes and feelings going into wearing the clothes. Yes, a large part of that is competition. Why do we need to compete? Another large part of that is wanting to feel attractive--especially after reproducing when our bodies aren't quite what they used to be. So maybe some fountain of youth might be going on there. Maybe it is because we don't really have a testimony of motherhood. Maybe it is because we're worried our husbands don't have a testimony of motherhood? Maybe it is just because we're surrounded by billboards advertising liposuction?

Any thoughts?

FYI--I come at this from a position of someone who USED TO BE supremely confident in her looks/abilities/everything and then, somehow, lost a lot of that confidence. Why does that happen? Does it happen to most women? I know the article Julia linked touched on it--but her suggestions were no-brainers; dress nicely, do your hair--stuff our moms all taught us. But if you dress neatly, comb your hair, put on make-up and have a hot, tasty meal on the table when your hubby walks in the door and you STILL feel not-good-enough--what then?

books galore

Those books sound interesting.  I, however, will not be reading anything this month that I cannot get from the library or read for free online.  The Run With Me book looks good, but my library system is apparently not carrying it.  I've got Playful Parenting on hold, but it will be awhile before it comes.

I have recently read "Playful Learning: Develop your Child's Sense of Joy and Wonder" by Mariah Bruehl.  It was okay.  A couple good ideas that I hadn't hit on before.  It was very Montessori-ish.  One idea that I thought you'd love is the idea of making little blank books to keep around the house to stimulate your child's interest in writing and art.  I made a stack of books by cutting computer paper in half, folding in half, putting a plain cardstock cover on, and stapling, then doing the same thing with some whole sheets.  I have a bunch and put them on a shelf on my desk and told the kids they were theirs to do with as they pleased.  Logan, who usually never wants to draw or write, jumped up and did a whole series of pictures.  We'll see how popular they are, but they sure looked cute.  They were so easy to make and made me feel like SUCH a good, nurturing, crafty mother.    Sigh.

Also recently read a talk by Julie B. Beck called "Nourishing and Protecting Our Families" that she gave at the 2009 BYU Women's Conference.  If you google it, it's easy to find.  A GEM of a talk, as all of hers seem to be.

And I'm fighting my way through the second half of Ken Robinson's book "The Element".  The first half was quick and fascinating and managed to both thrill me and make me feel like a complete loser as an inspiring parent and creative individual.  The second half is making me feel better, but I've either lost interest in the topic, or it's just dragging on too long for one book. 

I'd love reading suggestions for the year.  I haven't given it hardly any thought, but I really like having a booklist to work from when I'm placing holds in the library site.  I need some GOOD books to be coming in every couple weeks or I get bored.

finally, I know we're basically over Misfit here, but she wrote a great post on modesty that Josh and I really liked if you're interested.  I kept her blog on my google reader and I think this is the first time she's posted since the last time we talked.

Thanks ladies!  Hope you all had a wonderful Christmas.


Oh yes, Andrea, is your sister still in Switzerland?  I have a couple questions to ask her about train travel.  I'm a bit confused about the various rail passes that I've been reading about in the travel books and what the difference is.  If she wouldn't mind hearing from me, and you wouldn't mind passing on my email address, I would appreciate it.  kelosh 2 at gmail dot com.  Thanks so much!

books to read

Increase in Learning by Elder Bednar - I have this one sitting by my bed ready to read (Christmas present).  I think it's more of a slow study though, not really a read quick and discuss type book.  ??  I'm excited to get into it though.
Raising up a family to the Lord. - - One of my most favorite parenting books!  A MUST read.  I don't think I'll read it again right now, but I will join in the discussion.  Powerful principles in that book!

Soft-Spoken Parenting - this one might be interesting...always needed.  :-)
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I, for one, would also love to re-read Notwithstanding my Weakness by Elder Maxwell (I know, I've been pushing this one for awhile, but it really is GREAT and I need to re-learn some things). 
 
Also interested in reading and discussing The Divine Center by Steven R. Covey
 
And, the greatest book I just read was Do Hard Things by ? & Alex Harris  (Two 19-yr old homeschooled Christian twins).  I'm actually having my 12 yr. old read it right now.  It's great.
 
Just my two cents.

Books

Hey guys,

I'm checking out some books at the library and was curious if any of you were interested in reading them.

Run With Me: An Accidental Runner and the Power of Poo

I'm much too lazy to fix the formatting.

Increase in Learning by Elder Bednar

Or Playful Parenting: A Bold New Way to Nurture Close Connections.

Raising up a family to the Lord.

Soft-Spoken Parenting.